Trimming the Christmas Tree

Summary


"Trimming the Christmas Tree" is a Christmas poem told in the wistful voice of a child locked out of the parlor while the tree is decorated without him. He watches light flicker under the door and thinks of his friend Earl, whose mother sings carols and lets him join in everything. The boy's quiet frustration deepens as he reflects on small moments of being overruled by adults — and ends with a tender, determined promise about the kind of parent he will one day be.

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I wish that I could help to trim the tree;
They all are in the parlor, ‘ceptin’ me.
I watch the light that skims along the floor
When they are walking past the locked-up door.
Of course I’ll see it all trimmed nice and done,
But I believe the trimming’s lots of fun.

A young boy kneels alone in a dark hallway, watching golden Christmas tree light glow under a locked door — "Trimming the Christmas Tree."

Earl says his mother never locks him out,
But lets him wind the tinsel things about
And makes the smelly hemlock branches shine—
His presents never cost so much as mine.
But he threads popped-out kernels on a string,
And takes a hand in almost everything.

The present for his mother he can choose
All by himself; when Auntie chose the shoes
She had me buy for mother, I’d a sight
Rather have got the fan that, fluffy, white,
Showed in the window—but Aunt Erma smiled
And said, “No; get these shoes, you foolish child.”

She marked them, too, with mother’s name and mine
On a red card, and said, “Now, that is fine—
A useful present for a boy to buy!”
I’d like to hang them there myself, but I
Won’t see the tree till everything is hung.

Earl told me that his mother often sung
Old Christmas carols while they trimmed the tree.
I wish there was someone to sing with me,
Or read, or something, while I’m here alone;
It seems the longest night that I have known
Since they went in and shut the door behind.

At Earl’s, the windows haven’t got a blind,
And anyone can stand outside and see
Earl and his mother while they trim the tree.
But here, outside, ’tis all shut up and dark;
I cannot hear, although I hark and hark
For what they’re saying. When I’m big, you’ll see—
My little boy shall help to trim the tree.

Credits

Cora A. Matson Dolson was an American poet active in the late 19th and early 20th century, known for verse that captured the inner lives of children with warmth and precision. This poem is particularly noted for its dramatic monologue structure, giving a single child's voice the space to reveal both longing and quiet resilience.